Anger is not the problem. Not knowing what to do with anger is the problem.

Children do not need to be taught that anger is bad. They need to be taught how to recognize it, express it safely, cool down, and repair after it comes out sideways.

The Anger Management Guide for Kids gives parents practical, child-friendly tools for helping children ages 3–10 understand and manage anger without shame. Written in Dr. Joanna Voss’s warm, science-informed style, this guide teaches families how to build anger awareness, body signals, safe expression, scripts, cool-down routines, school strategies, and repair skills.

Inside, you’ll find:

• The Fire Alarm Model for helping children understand what anger is trying to communicate
• The Anger Ladder for recognizing escalation before anger reaches explosion
• Body-mapping tools to help children notice early warning signs
• Fast anger tools for the first 60 seconds
• Anger management activities for kids ages 3–10
• Scripts children can use at home, school, and with friends
• Repair tools for after hitting, yelling, throwing, or hurtful words
• School anger plans for classroom, playground, and peer conflict
• Adaptations for ADHD-profile, highly sensitive, sensory-sensitive, anxious, or fast-escalating children
• Printable-style worksheets and quick-reference tools for parents and children

This book does not promise a child who never gets angry.

It offers something better: a child who slowly learns what to do when anger arrives.

Anger is allowed. Hurting is not. Repair is how we come back.