You love each other. You are both exhausted. And neither of you set out to hurt the other this many times.

A missed message, a forgotten plan, a conversation that turned into more than either of you meant it to be. Robin Merritt has heard both sides of this: the partner who cannot understand why care keeps getting lost in translation, and the partner with ADHD who cannot explain why loving someone this much still results in the same disappointment on repeat.

This book will not ask you to pick a villain. The person with ADHD is not automatically careless, and the person who feels worn down is not automatically unreasonable. Most relationships shaped by ADHD are just two people responding to the same pain with whatever strategies they have, and some of those strategies are making things worse. An explanation will not undo what happened between you, but it changes what you are actually arguing about, and that is where repair becomes possible.

Book Six of The Adult ADHD Series.

For couples and partners who are tired of the same argument and ready to understand what is actually causing it.